I'm not entirely sure exactly what you want. The Aerie romance variables you now have and that should therefore sort out your Aerie romance problem.
Jaheira/Harpers. What's up here, what are you trying to achieve?
Fighter Stronghold = Nalia's Keep. What are you trying to achieve with the Tempus priest thing? (I don't recall that as a fighter s/h quest.)
If you can be more specific then maybe I can help.
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It's bleedin dark down here, slippery too.
Man, that's a pisser.