[ElfBane]

What are you trying to do? Restart the romance? Have multiple romances? Let us know.

Here is some general advice about romances, though. They are quirky and fail easily if you don't say the right things,,,,just like in real life. Do a search on this board for "romances" or "Aerie romance", you will get MANY hits. Read thru them and heed the advice. There are even cheats that can restart failed romances...just read the NUMEROUS romance posts already made. A bit of warning on the Aerie romance,,,SPOILER!!
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if the romance fails, she will eventually leave you. BUT, I believe you will have the chance to recruit her again at the beginning of ToB. Hope this helps!