Lillie--
Unfortunately the trip was planned a while ago and it would be hard for her to get out of it. We have only had one session with the therapist but are going again on Wednesday. I was kind of dissappointed with the therapist with this issue. The only questions she asked about the affair were 1) Is it over 2) Do you still have feelings for this guy....and then she dropped it and moved on. I would have thought that this would be an issue that the therapist would want to tackle....maybe we will get into it in future sessions??? I guess I just have to trust her to be honest with herself and with me. She cries every night just thinking about how she hurt me. I just hope that those thoughts of hurting me are there if she is ever in a 'compromising' situation again. Unfortunately she is the type of person that is act now and think later
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