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Originally posted by Lady Sedai:
And Stormy, I think you are awesome! [img]smile.gif[/img]
Being so supportive right now is the best thing and not many people can do that with an exes children. Especially if it means communication *with* the ex may be necessary. heh
You rock. Truly. [img]smile.gif[/img]
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I have told him from the beging, although it may be hard for me sometimes to deal with the ex, it is still his first family, and I have no right to stand in the way of him and his children [img]smile.gif[/img] and in fact, I love them, and have no desire to try and become a mother figure to them, I am just a step mom, they have a mother and a father, I am more of a friend than anything, and the 19 year old knows that I am here if she ever needs to talk, but the one that is coming home right now we have not talked much, I think she is scared of me, or afraid I am trying to become her mom or something. as I have told people before, if she comes stays with us, she will have to obey the normal house rules, but it is not my place to discipline her.