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Ramon de Ramon y Ramon · 03-12-2001, 06:28 AM

Just stopped by to say that I sympathize with you, Epona.

I have not been in a situation like yours myself, but I think that I have sufficient empathy in me to at least be able to imagine that the uncertainty of it must be very hard to bear and that you probably have to battle a mix of strong and dangerous sentiments like frustration, fear, self-pity, anger and desperation. From my own experience, in other areas, I know only too well, that sometimes the worrying itself can become more strenuous, troubling and emotionally draining than the problem itself.

But I do think that you might be underestimating the potential for a at least bearable outcome: that the tests result in a clear diagnosis of a treatable and curable and rather minor health problem. Wouldn't alone being able to name and identify the "enemy" be a good sign ? And to be able to actually do something about it instead of just having to wait and worry your head off ?

I know, that is easy for me to say, but still ...

I found it also very encouraging what you wrote about your physician: that she is very thorough and takes her time with her patients. That is very important and really enhances your chances of being diagnosed and treated swiftly and efficiently. See, I actually do think that women are capable of more than knitting and embroidering !

Finally, in a situation like yours, why shouldn't you go after a little sympathy, after all we all need it from time to time.

Unfortunately, I cannot offer you any further assistance, besides encouraging words and, if you like, from time to time one of my lame and silly banters and jokes.

Good luck, take care and I wish you the very best !

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So long !

R³ - Co-president(s) of the Club of Broken Hearts

[This message has been edited by Ramon de Ramon y Ramon (edited 03-12-2001).]

03-12-2001, 06:28 AM	#12
Ramon de Ramon y Ramon Red Dragon Join Date: March 1, 2001 Location: Cologne, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany Age: 52 Posts: 1,517	Just stopped by to say that I sympathize with you, Epona. I have not been in a situation like yours myself, but I think that I have sufficient empathy in me to at least be able to imagine that the uncertainty of it must be very hard to bear and that you probably have to battle a mix of strong and dangerous sentiments like frustration, fear, self-pity, anger and desperation. From my own experience, in other areas, I know only too well, that sometimes the worrying itself can become more strenuous, troubling and emotionally draining than the problem itself. But I do think that you might be underestimating the potential for a at least bearable outcome: that the tests result in a clear diagnosis of a treatable and curable and rather minor health problem. Wouldn't alone being able to name and identify the "enemy" be a good sign ? And to be able to actually do something about it instead of just having to wait and worry your head off ? I know, that is easy for me to say, but still ... I found it also very encouraging what you wrote about your physician: that she is very thorough and takes her time with her patients. That is very important and really enhances your chances of being diagnosed and treated swiftly and efficiently. See, I actually do think that women are capable of more than knitting and embroidering ! Finally, in a situation like yours, why shouldn't you go after a little sympathy, after all we all need it from time to time. Unfortunately, I cannot offer you any further assistance, besides encouraging words and, if you like, from time to time one of my lame and silly banters and jokes. Good luck, take care and I wish you the very best ! ------------------ So long ! R³ - Co-president(s) of the Club of Broken Hearts [This message has been edited by Ramon de Ramon y Ramon (edited 03-12-2001).]