Go to
Baldurdash and download the romance patch from Sir Kalthorine. If you want to initiate a romance with Anomen, use the following CLUA Command:
CLUAConsole:SetGlobal("CharnameMatch","GLOBAL",1)
where the charname is one of teh four scripted love interests in bg2. The number at the end indicated what stage the romance is at. 0 means it hasn't started, 3 means it's ended, 1 or 2 mean it's ongoing.
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