That's the great thing about having a young heart, Bahamut, it can bounce back like a superball on the playground, and to paraphrase some of the 'bicycle' advice you got earlier, there is nothing like someone new to help heal the wounds.
I have to admit, I did not really think of my opinion on matters as being 'cold' or 'hard' - just the voice of experience, R, and empathy for your position, having been there myself, remembering how chaotic and non-linear one's thinking can be in that situation. Keep us posted on the prom situation, and who you do go with, k?
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When given a choice, take both.
