It's true that Viconia will ownly go for a human (I think half-elf is doable too, no pun intended,) so the only dialog fights they should be having are the ones viconia and jaheira pick with everyone (including each other) anyway.
As far as a fight over the PC if you're romancing both, I've never done both at once so I don't know about that.
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