I don't think it really matters. as long as we live a good and loving life at the moment then all options are surely covered. having a sunny and helpful disposition means that people respond with a smile and that's a kinda 'good karma' thing. no-one will ever know until they die. i did ask my grandmother to get in touch after her death and she was the kind of person who would have........ she hasn't as yet and she died a few years' ago now, so......
anyway. death is a topic that a lot of people fear - however, if you live your life in such a way that you spread joy and love and thoughtfulness to yourself and others', then you will always live on in their hearts and minds. (a bit cheesy, but the best i can do as i'm one of the drift of into the ether people).
fljotsdale is pretty good at scrambling brains - watch out for her post and argue with it. it'll help you to merge your desires with logic
