The females you can get jiggy with in BG2 are:
Aerie: for the good character
Jaheira: For neutrals
Viconia: for evils.
Now you can romance any of these three ladies no matter what alignment you are. I just put the alignment beside them as in order to romance them you have to choose dialogue options that sort of coincide with each ladies' own alignment.
For female characters the only guy you can romance is Anomen. Bioware didn't cater much for female love-interests. I suppose there arnt that many female RPG players out there anyway. And no there are no gay relationships either, disappointing for all you raving homo's out there
