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Personally, I think all this analysis isn't going to help at all if you're not even communicating with her. Relationships don't respond to formulae; you need to address feelings first before you start rationalising anything.
To get her to talk to you, you can try calling her, asking her out or writing to her (not an accusing letter, that's shooting yourself in the foot). Ask her why she is mad and listen to what she says. Before you start blaming her, consider if she has a point. It will help if you ask for her to forgive your apparent lack of concern (if you seriously mean it)... when she has let off her steam, then you can hopefully bring forward your points. She would probably feel better that she's been listened to, and bother to listen to you.
At least, this is my opinion.
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