[Bungleau]

My thoughts...

First off, it is between your sister and stepmonster. It's not between you (yet...).

Second, I concur with sending the phone back or, if desired, switching to a phone card or prepaid phone. Presto! No more overages [img]smile.gif[/img]

Third... while I prefer to stay out of others' business (especially family), it's probably worth mentioning to your dad what you're seeing... just so he's aware that there are two sides to the story (three, actually, but that's another story).

Fourth, I don't know what's going on between your sister, father, and Hawai'i. I would suggest that your sister look for independence ASAP.

And fifth, your real mom doesn't factor into this for you. if your sister wants to talk to her, thatls fine - it's not your place.

Good luck -- I feel for you.