I think some people are assuming that 'long term and monogamous' means 'boring' or something. But that doesn't have to be the case and for many of us in committed, monogamous relationships it's just as spicy and interesting as you want it to be. There really is something to be said for the closeness and trust built up over time. As far as I've seen, it adds it's own zest to the relationship. [img]smile.gif[/img] Knowing we have a lifetime to explore the possibilities....just makes it even better.
Mel, nicely put! I hadn't realized about the rats (or dolphins etc!) but Jim's nodding and saying 'she's right!' as he reads over my shoulder. Learn something new every day!
[ 02-08-2005, 10:36 PM: Message edited by: Cloudbringer ]