Phew!!!! Calm down a bit
. Firstly, I presume that you have successfully downloaded and unzipped the patches? If not, try downloading unzipping and installing them again.
If that does not work, try uninstalling them reinstalling the game to rule out any corruptiion of your core Darkstone files.
Beyond that, I would try disabling any anti-virus software for the duration of the install / patching process.
Hope this helps
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Regards
Mouse