Liliara, I guess this place is like a huge club - some people like dancing on the dance floor, some like drinking at the bar, some like casual chatting, and some like to sit in the extreme corners and debate passionately about issues. One person's wine is another's poison.
Some (controversial) thread topics may prove upsetting, but they are entitled to be posted as long as they do not breach forum guidelines, talk about illegal activities or involve flaming. There are many other posts which are more conversational, escapist type posts (look for anything initiated by Cloudbringer).
I guess my best suggestion would be to avoid the threads that might upset you. Just skip over them.
I will be bringing up the possibility of having a "serious discussions" forum with Ziroc in the future - when the time is right for him.
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