as you al know, my Grandmother is dying with cancer. and I have been trying to spend time with her. well today my mom tells me something my grandmother has been telling everyone that on thanksgiving she did not know we were coming out, and the kids got on her nerves. and that we made the kids eat on the floor
I have been trying really hard to ignore everything my grandmother has sadi or done in the past to me, but I refuseto stand by and let her do the same to my kids. it really hurts that she is acting like this, I know she is looking for sympathy from others, but does she have to use me and my kids this way? she and I have never seen eye to eye, she has always prefered all the boys to me.
am I wrong for throwing up my hands and saying no more? knowing this may be the last chance to make things right? or should I keep trying knowing that I an dmy kids will get more hurt?
can anyone give advice on this?