gab-nathan works hard. he is a full time multimedia specialist, and a part time sales associate at staples. he only works at staples 3-4 days a week. but those 3-4 days are really helping us with making ends meet. he does it because he is determined. we needed help with our electric bill once and when we sought it (well me actually since nathan was at work at the time) i was basically told that if i'm not working and my husband only has one job that we are not trying hard enough. i left bawling because we were trying to replace our one and only car because the head gasket was shot, and i'm pregnant and can't work. which yes if i had been working at the beginning of this pg i probably could be but she acted as if i should be able to go out and find a job that would hire me so far along. anyway....he is trying to take care of his family and that is how he does it. he also gets lots of time to himself now. last night he went out of town to game (pnp rpg) and even tho i wanted him home i didn't throw a fit or ask him to stay home. he worked wednesday, was going to game thursday and is working again tonight. 3 days of my 9 mos pg and sick taking care of a sick toddler. it is hard on me, but we each do what we need to do. now nathan did not game last night, but...it was because it was cancelled without anyone telling him.
anyway.........go on and feel sorry for him. he gets very little time with his family, and just about the same with his friends. but he has vacation from his day job next week. we will get to catch up on things together. as long as i'm not in labor the minute he goes on vacation...lol
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