Heya, welcome to the board.
Yes, unfortunately for the female gamers, Anomen is the only option for romance that a female character has. If you're not afraid of a little girl-girl love, there is an unofficial patch that allows female characters to also get the female romance-options, even all three plus Anomen at the same time (if that is your taste, of course [img]tongue.gif[/img] ). It can be dowloaded
here, look for Sir Kalthorine wotsisname's Concurrent Romance Fix.
Also, you might want to check out
this thread and
this thread.
To top it off, I've also heard things about people working on a Valygar- or Haer'Dalis-romance, but I don't know the details on that.