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Originally posted by the sauceman:
Anywho, When I open the CD case that most of my games are in, theyre all gone, with a little note instead.
Steven, (Thats my name)
Due to your abuse of these f*cking games, your mother and I have decided that it is best if you dont have to worry about them until after you graduate.
(o)
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l l l l
l l l l
l l l l
l.l.l.l
(Little picture of a trash can with a CD going into it)
Signed,
John (My step father. The name was changed to keep some privacy)
Now, my step father is a little bit bigger than I, and has a very mean temper. (He gave my cat a heart attack because he hates cats, that F*CKING bastard) So the first thing I do is check the trash cans in the house, and then the sideyard. After a futile search, I give up and go to bed.
The next morning "John" has already gone to work when I wake up. Sighing in defeat, I get ready and make my way to school, knowing that the games are history.
That night, I ask John why he decided to throw away the games that I had bought with my money. His reply was that I had to learn to grow up, and finish High School. Rather unhappy, I tried to explain to him that a D is a passing grade, and I have MORE than enough credits to graduate already. Of course he would hear none of it, and sent me to my room to brood.
Turning on my computer, I heave a sigh, and then open the CD case in my computer (it holds about 7 CDs) and lo and behold, there are some of my older games, Fallout, Fallout 2, Master of Orion 2, Icewind Dale 2, and Age of Mythology. Almost weeping with joy, I pop in fallout and begin a new game.
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HE absolutely has NO right to do that. He violated your privacy, and as far as this thing goes, he abused his right to be your parent. If he's been acting like this ever since he was in your life, then he should
NOT be there. good parents, that sense of family and belonging and comfort, are the most priceless gift a child can have. nothing can replace a good father, a man who would guide his child, love him/her, play with him/her, protect him/her and most importantly teach him/her the value in which it takes to bem a man! but a terrible (if this is true with ur step dad) parent is NOT BETTER THAN NOTHING.
there is, I shall repeat this point,
NOTHING you or your mother can do to change his temper, his personality. he may change, but not after 20 or 30 years.
aside from you not performing well in your single class, he had NOT been a good parent to you. there is not much you can do about him stealing your CDs and making you feel violated, and HE KNOWS IT.
I do not know much about your situation, and can only make vague guesses from your post. my advice maybe harmful, and what I said above was based on an assumption of him being an angry and uncaring dad to you. tell me more abt him and you, I may offer you something. best of luck