Last month I had 2 uncles die within a week of each other, we missed the funeral for the last one(my fathers side), but everyone decided to have a memorial for the first(my mothers side). he did nt want one, and chose to be cremated and wanted no service in his honor
but my grandmother wants one, so we are going to have one, my delima is...I HATE MY FAMLY!!!! seriously, this is the most snobish stuckup bunch of people i have ever met in my life, I loved my uncle and plann on going, he was a Naval officer for a long time, and sometimes it seems like the only reason my family attends these functions is to see who has done what and then gossip about them for the rest of their lives. I do not want my kids having part with any of the family like that, but would eel guilty if i did not bring them for my grand mother, what would you sugest in a family lke this? the memorial is may 31st