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Like Mouse, I've never had to go through what you're going through. I will say however, that you should never apologise for what you're feeling, or think that your feelings are wrong, or you should be feeling something more 'appropriate' or less confronting, or more 'normal'. Your feelings are yours, and they are valid and what 'most people' might 'normally' be feeling at this situation is irrelevant.
That doesn't mean that just because you're feeling a certain way, you can do whatever you like - you shouldn't be, as I'm sure you have not been, rude or disrespectful to this new guy, or to your mother. Perhaps you could talk to her though, and tell her how you're feeling - she may not realise that you are upset by it. Nothing you say is going to make your parents get 'undivorced', but if you let them know how you feel, it could be easier.
Hope it all works out for you [img]smile.gif[/img]
[ 05-11-2003, 05:31 PM: Message edited by: Aelia Jusa ]
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