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Originally posted by Reeka:
All men aren't like that. All men aren't cheaters. A man looking at pornography does not bother all women. Men are visually stimulated because they are men. As far as it being normal, I don't think it is abnormal for men to want to look at pornography. It is only a big deal if you make it a big deal. As for as not listening to you, how do you approach him? A calm, rational approach works best with most people. Not playing the blame game. Having more "I's" in the conversation than "you's". I, personally, tune people out if they get to ranting around me. And please note, that I am not saying you do this, I am just stating these from my point of view when dealing with someone. Most men do not try to make women feel stupid. My boyfriend thinks I am very intelligent. In fact, he says that my mind is the sexiest part of me.
I don't know if you are making too much of it, but it wouldn't bother me.
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Well, pornography is a whole other issue. If someone is looking at pornpics when his wife is sitting in the same room, i'd say there's something wrong in da family.
But looking at pictures in, let's say Playboy, isn't porn. They're usually classy photoshoots of gorgeous women. I don't see anything wrong in that. I'd be more worried, if i weren't interrested in those.