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I have Zona Alarm myself, and all you need to do to stop it nagging you about one program is tell it to "Remember this answer the next time I use this program", then answer yes or no. The remember option is just above the yes & no buttons.

Otherwise you can open zone alarm's control panel, click on program control, get the "programs" tab. find the program you are interested to discipline in the program column. You will notice there are question marks on the right of the program's name: they are, in order: right to access trusted zone, right to access internet, right to be a server in trusted zone, right to be server on internet. Left click the second and choose allow / block as wished. The program will stop asking. If you choose the question mark, it will ask every time.