[Cloudbringer]

Sounds as if they were just dating and had an agreement to be able to date others. Guess they just decided to make it exclusive at a bad time for you! I do think you are right, though, she should have told you up front.

I would say if they were in an 'open' relationship where they were mainly with each other but could date other people, that would be strange to me. Like you said, why bother saying you are a couple if you really aren't exclusive?

I guess I'm old fashioned too. [img]smile.gif[/img] One thing my fiance and I did from the start was make clear our ideas on fidelity and what constitutes cheating in our opinions. I think being open about those things really helped alot.

Well, I guess I'll wish you better luck next time! [img]smile.gif[/img]