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Originally posted by Stormymystic:
i am not offended, but i feel it is supposedto be my place to raise him, when he finaly came home from hospital, they made us have nurses, and now it is y responsibility to make sure he is raised right, even though it is hard.
i do not want everyone saying i told you you should not have had anymore kids until he was at least 5.
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And thatīs what I meant by getting offended. This is a sensitive subject. But seeking help is just that, help. It will not belittle your efforts in any way. It is your, and your husbands, job to raise your children. But help is never to be spurned IMHO. You could always try it once. If it makes you feel uncomfortable then you stop. [img]smile.gif[/img] I assure you that a professional will never make you ffel like a bad mother, and indeed you are not a bad mother for acquiring help.