[harleyquinn]

Sounds to me like you could use a small vacation. Any chance hubby could watch the kids for a night (or better yet a weekend) so that you could get out of the house. One of the best things I've heard of is a friend that gave his wife a night in a hotel room (w/room service) and left her there. She had the whole night to just herself to relax with no interruptions. To take long bubble bath, watch tv, sleep, whatever. Sounds to me like that's what you could use, if it's doable that is. If you can't afford a hotel, maybe hubby could take kids to relative for a day or two and you can stay at home and pamper yourself (NO CLEANING!!!).
If needed, I'm sure you can borrow the willow stick to convince hubby that this would be good idea [img]graemlins/whackya.gif[/img]