Being that I have cats, not kids (although my mom swears that a lot of the things they do that drive me crazy are just like kids), I can't say if this book is good or full of crap, but you can look. I heard it mentioned on the Today show yesterday:
http://www.msnbc.com/news/900667.asp?0dm=N12JV
"When Kids Push Your Buttons"
Hope it helps, if not, well, you can have my brother to make it up to you
