If you kicked her out of your party, I do not think the romance will work again. Check your globals.
Sorcerers.net has a great site that details every romance down to the individual lovetalk occurrence. Very thorough. And, the one rule of thumb they provide regarding Jaheira is never, ever, ever kick her out of your party.
Dunno for sure. I did the Jaheira romance all the way through with no cheats, and with few bug problems.
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