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Old 03-04-2003, 12:10 AM   #8
LordKathen
Ma'at - Goddess of Truth & Justice
 

Join Date: September 15, 2002
Location: Kennewick, WA
Age: 53
Posts: 3,166
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Originally posted by Animal:
Personally, and don't take this is an insult, why should she change if that's who she is? If your friend doesn't like her for who she is, then why is he wasting his time. To expect anyone to change who they are just because we want them too, is futile. If that's who your friends GF really is, then perhaps it's time for your friend to move on, if that's not what he's looking for.
To a point Animal, you are correct. But, there are compromises to be made in a serious relationship. Like I said, she has to want to change. If she loves him, she will compromise a few things about her character to adapt to his. Such is love.
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