[The Hunter of Jahanna]

My friend "Al"(name changed because it isnt me) had the same problem. His gf would always put him down about where he lived , what job he had, how he looked, any anything else you can think of. After a few months he had enough and they had a big fight and then a civilized conversation. The stayed together, but didnt speak for a week. They both agreed to the not speaking part. When they started talking again they both made an effort to be nice to one another because they realy were in love with each other. It has ben 3 years and they are stil together. What started out as an effort to be nice eventualy became a habit and now they are both habitualy , sickeningly nice to each other. So, I guess people can change, but they have to want to change.