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I've been living a pretty good life. Attending college, living care and stress free. I've been doing quite well. My parents have had a loving relationship, my father tends to be whiney some times and I offer my technical experteese whenever he gets into a jam. Well... Today, on Presidents day, after our moods were already put down by the accidental deaths of 21 people due to the use of pepper spray, my DSL goes out. Dial-up appears to be working just fine, and my Dad is begging me to do his taxes on my computer, I connect via Dial-up, and he starts getting into a hissey fit. He starts tearing apart my homework asignments and tossing my orderly computer set up about. He demands to get on with the DSL. So I then attempt to hook the DSL lines up and get it working, my computer prefers dial up, I remove dial-up and only give the computer the choice of using DSL, My Father gets even more mad, pushes me aside and demands to use my workspace to repair the problem himself. I give him full acess to my computer, he deletes more of my Mp3 and Homework files, all to quench his thirst for connecting with DSL to do his taxes, while my DSL isn't even good at that sort of thing. My mother is forced to listen to him scream at the top of his lungs demanding order, while he abuses my computer further and further. I stay calm, cool, and relaxed, and every solution I attempt to play toward him he shoots down and demands a better one, not even willing to try some of my ideas, he goes about trying some of his own, resulting in the complete revamping of my hard drive, the DSL, still doesnt want to bulge. no program on my computer accepts my LAN connection, and I'm still using Dial uP. The reason we have both is because the DSL tends to Charge extra when over 300 megs have been down/up loaded. Well my Father has been so angered by this and his emotional outbursts were so strong that my mother has gone and decided to divorce him. And I'm stuck in the middle, my college funding will probably be going down the drain due to them both sueing eachother until they don't have pennies. I'm getting on a plane to Kyoto next week, to start attending classes, on campus, and outside of Cuba.
Does anyone have any advice on how to get two people together who emmotionally can't stand eachother any more? I realize i'm supposed to be the Psychology major here, but let's face it, these two people have gone beyond all lenghtes of bizareness which I have known.
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yeah...
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