Sir Kenyth, each woman is different, some like jewelry more than others. So I can only speak for myself here.. For me LOL, jewelry is always good! LOL! Go Kenyth! Go Kenyth! Get that Jewelry! Get that Jewelry!
As for your second question, same as above, can only speak for myself, and how much that is spent isn't the important thing for me, and I never "compare" who spends more than who at Christmas. And you have Valentine's Day already in mind, that gives you extra points right there LOL!
Oh, and that amethyst bracelet is a beauty!