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Animal, I really appreciate the fact that you see and understand Christmas for the day it is supposed to be. It is my feeling that most people have already removed the religious aspects of the day and celebrate it only as a fill in the blank holiday. By that I mean that people have taken it to be a "free" day and ascribe whatever content to it that they enjoy.
It appears that your sense of honesty and integrity in not wanting to debase what for others is a holy day has led you to be labeled a "grinch". Your post makes it clear that this is not the case. If it was called family and friend day, I have no doubt that you would feel quite comfortable in gift exchange etc. Since that is exactly what the day represents for so many they are confused in your desire not to participate.
I feel for you. I can see that this stand has not come without a price. I would like to offer some advice that might help. When I visit with friends that are Jewish I always cover my head and have even learned a prayer in Hebrew. When eating with Arab or Muslim friends I am careful to only use my right hand. It is not that I share their religious beliefs but that I honor their belief when I am with them. In the same manner, in those things which do not infringe upon your own values, maybe you could partake in the Christmas season with those around you. Whatever position you take in the future I applaud your compassion and personal honesty.
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