[Aelia Jusa]

Originally posted by Attalus: Right,Antryg. Lilacor, I asked the Resident Female at my house, that would be the beauteous Galadria, and her comments were (unedited): "This guy is obviously a nerd, and this girl, ex-cheerleader, dance team, etc., has gotten to the point where the next thing that she does is have her boyfriend, brother, or some other husky guy she knows go and talk to him to tell her to leave her the {heck} alone, or buy some bruises. That thing that is talking to him isn't Jiminy Cricket, it is Mr. Testosterone, telling him, 'Ooh, if I can only word it right, she will be my friend, and, maybe more. Maybe, a lot more.' Face it, Lilacor, the girl isn't interested in you. Maybe, in ten years, if you play your cards exactly right, you may have a shot at her, but now, hell no, no way." Those are her comments, as close as I can get. Cruel, but you wanted to know what "the girls" thought. Sorry, dude.

ROFL Galadria! I was thinking all of that myself! Your jiminy cricket sounds neurotically overreactive and in desperate need of some valium. I don't even understand what you're apologising for. The chick just isn't interested. It happens. What you should be apologising for is bombarding her with needless and unwanted apologies. Uh... but don't!!

Just leave her be and move on. The only thing you did wrong was to think you needed to apologise to her and then irritating her socks off by trying to. You're probably a nice guy, a little intense maybe... but just not what she's after. She clearly wasn't scarred by anything you did that you think you need to apologise for, and that's the only reason you should apologise for anything. If you're apologising to make yourself feel better then go work that out on your own because she has nothing to do with it and shouldn't have to be stalked until your conscience is clear.