Hiram, I've often read your posts, and chatted with you on several occasions. You have a real personality, and that is so unbelievably hard to find these days. You're a very kind person, you always put other people ahead of yourself. I know this from the times you've talked about your family, and in particular your sister. Such compassion is a rare thing, it really is. On top of the friendliness, intelligence, kindness and selflessness is a thick layer of hilarity. You don't want to know how often I've been in absolute stitches from the things you've written. Mix up all these positive attributes and you've got the ingredients for a wonderful person.
There are three things you need to do. Firstly, realize you are this person. Secondly, feel sorry for the shallow people who don't appreciate you. Thirdly, relax and have confidence in yourself. If you take pride in the aforementioned characteristics you have, your whole perception of yourself and other people will change. You will be so much more at ease with who you are and far more ready for 'the one' when she does enter your life. Because it's a question of when, not if. You will meet her, I'm positive of this.
Good luck my friend [img]smile.gif[/img]
EDIT: Dr. Phil undertone really not intended here.
[ 11-20-2002, 01:29 AM: Message edited by: Arledrian ]
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