I think alimony/palimony/child support are all part of the revenge/entitlment mentality that society has developed. I don't believe anyone is "entitled" to anything. If you work out arangements with you x that are comfortable to both of you, that's all that matters. Your current GF has other issues that need delt with. She needs to realize that your son is a link to your x and that is never going to change. What ever the reason, your x is your X, and she is current. There is no need to add unneeded jelousies to an already complcated situation (unless you give her other reasons to think she needs to feel jelous).
Sorry to hear you have such a complicated mess.
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