Do whatever you feel like. Keep in mind that the vast majority of males in western society (myself included) like hairless female legs, but if shaving is something you seriously don't want to do (or simply can't be arsed doing) then don't. On the whole, most guys arn't so superficial as to let leg-hair get in the way of a good relationship anyway.
Waxing seems good on a 'don't-have-to-do-it-so-often' basis (if I would wax my face then I would), just grit your teeth and go for the gusto!
As a male, I personally shave my face often, although sometimes if I feel like it I grow one of those little chin-stripe beards, they're so cool. I also shave my tummy too, makes it all nice and smooth. I don't shave my chest though, don't wanna risk nicking my nipples
