[Sir Krustin]

Speaking purely about the childrens issues, I feel it's better (even froma christian viewpoint) to send them to a public school rather than a private one. I've seen children grow up in both institutions and I feel it's better to prepare them for life with the rest of the world than segregate them.

Sending them to church won't hurt your relationship with them, they will be taught to love and respect their parents. As long as you are frank with them and don't lie, I feel you'll have fewer problems. Lying just creates timebombs later in life, especially in those teen years.