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Old 08-28-2002, 03:01 AM   #5
J.J.
Symbol of Cyric
 

Join Date: March 1, 2001
Location: Montana, USA
Age: 61
Posts: 1,217
Hiya two-fiffy, how does it feel to be da maturin' one? That's what the pain you feel is - growth. I remember your travails of last year, is this the swan song? (hope so 4 your sake!) Wish I could tell you that once done with, all done with, but that has not been my experience. It will be easier the next time you are smitten with someone who acts like they are into you, then seem to change their mind and just act like they are through with you. Even worse are the ones that will do both several times - it's hard to remember that you are the one giving them the power to make you feel so bad when you are busy throwing your heart out when it seems like they want to catch it, then trying to reel back in the broken, bleeding pieces when they drop their hands and sidestep your throw. *ouch*

Not being so quick to throw helps, taking the time to get close enough to hand it over instead of throwing from a distance helps more. [img]smile.gif[/img]

By no means should you abandon hope in your life - I have not, nor will I. Just remember not to let it push YOU out of the drivers seat. Make it sit in the back, maybe let it roll down the window and hang it's tongue out the way dogs do, [img]tongue.gif[/img] but always remember dogs don't know how to drive. There, if that metaphor isn't terminally mixed, I don't know what would qualify.

Hows everything else doing for you? did you check out donut's thread on taking a stand at IW? seemed just like old times, lolol.

hope you are doing well, good to see you again.
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