Largely agree, Harkoliar. We really need to learn to appreciate the
here and now more, and concern ourselves a bit less with a future which for all we know may never come.
Unfortunately, though, while all this sounds great in theory, in
practice I suffer from an all-consuming obsession with developing
the ultimate male figure 
... Just can't put it down -- I keep hankering after this ideal, future me... Why can't I just accept what I am right now and be at peace with it? [img]graemlins/awcrap.gif[/img]
[ 07-28-2002, 10:28 AM: Message edited by: K T Ong ]