[Harkoliar]

i found this kinda true...
still hard to find it whether if i have infatuation or love though..

>Infatuation
>
> Sees the other person as perfect
> Wants to get own needs met; selfish
> Spends all time with the other person
> Quickly "falls" for the other person
> Other relationships and friendships deteriorate
> Dependence on the other person causes
> Jealousy frequently
> Lasts for a short period of time
> Distance strains and often puts an end to the relationship
> Quarrels are serious and common
> Quarrels can seriously damage the relationship
>
>Love
>
> Sees the other person's flaws and still loves them
> Wants to serve the other person; selfless
> Still spends time with others
> Takes time to build the relationship
> Other relationships and friendships grow stronger
> Trust and understanding results in less severe and less frequent jealousy
> Encompasses a long-term commitment
> Survives and sometimes is strengthened because of distance
> Quarrels are less serious and less often
> Quarrels can strengthen the relationship