I know man Ironworks is a great place, kind of like olive garden (but better), "When you're here, you're family!"
and as for that girl, SHE doesn't deserve YOU it's not the other way around. Though i've met alot of guys in a similar predicament and they all blame themselves. Well don't let the actions of another human being ever alter your emotional status, that's what i've learned. if you can do that, you're set...
^_^; and happy hunting (in advance when you go on the rebound)...