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Well, i dont get involved in to many of the "serious issues" threads but i have to join in here. As with a lot of you here i have been in the same situation, i was the little non-agressive guy in school and was picked on quite ruthlessly as a result.
But i have to disagree with pretty much everything i have heard from neb on this thread. Neb, you strike me as a very paranoid , worst case scenario kind of person. Never fighting back, and never standing up for yourself will lead to a very miserable life. Learning to fight back teaches you many valuable leasons about yourself. By all means dont start a fight, or be a trouble maker, that wont help you in any way. But when poorly adjusted people with bad attitudes know that you will fight back, you wont be a target anymore. And i can tell you from experiance that you dont have to win them all. I've won some and i've lost some. but that really becomes irrellivent. Once they know that you will fight back and you wont be the spineless target they want, they will find easier prey.
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