Neb, you must have gone through a lot of scary moments in your youth, considdering the way you dealt with bullies. I agree with Hunter of Jahanna here, once you let them slap you, they'll do it again and again. You say you got away with it your way, i say that's pretty unique. Normally they stay around longer than you wish. Everyone has encountered a bully once or twice in his lifetime and turning the other cheak is not the right way in my opinion. Back in highschool i had to deal with a guy who was just too big for me. In a fair fight i was no match for him. Does that mean i have to avoid him for as long i'm a student at that school. I decided otherwise and waited for my chance, when it came i had a big stick and gave him a beating he probably still has nightmares about. I'm not saying this to bragg or anything, but sometimes you gotta make a stand, nobody at school ever messed with me again.
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