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Originally posted by *\Conan/*:
I can see your really pissed off here someguy. Wow, if this was all true and not exaggerated , I can only offer you a lesson from my past to help you in some way.
When I was going through school, at 13 ,(couple years older than you.) there was this macho guy on the football team. Big guy and had alot of friends that hung out with him.
We didn't hit it off to good to start with and as the year progressed, the matter got worse. There wasn't anywhere I would go without him and his friends showing up sooner or later and it got to the point where they actually planned stuff to do to me. Not that I had any beef with his friends, they just followed for some reason because they were on the football team to I imagine.
Well, one day I saw him alone and had the guts to confront him. I went up to him grabbing his shirt and said "lets go football boy".
He was imediately starting to talk his way out of it and I all of a sudden had a slight upper hand. No ego to inflate in front of his friends luckily for me. Well, Im no dummy someguy, no violence happened , thankfully [img]redface.gif[/img] (he was huge!) and we bacame good friends after that. I even hung out with some of his friends after that also. A little intense mybe for some but thats part of me and life.
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Personally I'd still recommend for noone to try this even though it worked for you, Conan. You might find that the person you tried this on is an aggressive bastard that carries a knife. Or has a lot of friends that have no problems helping him beat you to a bloody pulp.
If you must stand up to a bully I'd suggest doing it verbally, instead of bluffing them physically. I did that with some bullies I had and it worked for me. Always choose the peaceful way out, turn the other cheek, do to others as you want them to do unto you and so on. Whatever you do returns to you in some way, so choose the violent way with others, and others will choose the violent way with you.