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Originally posted by Neb:
Just one last OT thing that I'd like to post on this thread is that I'm sorry that I got a angry at Cheetah, I overreacted, I shouldn't have, I'm 100% sure she didn't meant to chase Hiram away from the forums, she's far too nice to ever do something like that [img]smile.gif[/img]
Neb,I'm sure you are right. [img]smile.gif[/img] Don't worry, it will all work out ok, I think!
The issue here is that we can be avoiding such things in the future by thinking ahead and perhaps editing our posts so as not to purposely use sarcasm instead of reasoning and opinions in a discussion/debate.
There is a difference between my saying "I disagree completely with your stand on disarming the warlord of the scarecrows. It will only make the fighting worse." and "What a pansy-*ss idea that is! Your spineless mama's boy attitude will make the fighting worse!"
See the difference? It only takes a second to click on 'send' but a few minutes of re-reading and editing can save hours of regret later when a member of the forum leaves or ceases to be comfortable posting here because of perceived insult.
This is a general comment, meant for the whole community. We all have to coexist and if we want this particular forum to stay open, we have to work at making our points on their own merit, not at someone else's expense.
Cloudy