This doesn't really belong in this forum, more in GD, but I'll reply in the spirit in which you posted it. Don't be surprised it it migrates to GD eventually though.
I think people get confused between being polite and respectful and being politically correct. Courtesy goes both ways. Just as minorities feel they shouldn't have to be picked on, majorities should feel that they can be honest in their communication - as long as there is mutual respect. People who are anti-war, anti-US policy should have the freedom to express their opinion without the fear of being slammed for it, as long as they do so in a manner that shows respect for those on the other sides of the fence. Likewise, people who are pro-war and proud of their country (the US) should be allowed to show their patriotism without being labelled warmongers, as long as they can do so in a matter that does not disrespect or belittle the views of the anti-war lobby.
We should all be able to try and live harmoniously here, free to put our opinions forward and free to accept other people's viewpoints, as long as we do it with mutual respect.
The removal of pride is the first step on the path to happiness.
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