I disagree Dio. absolute pacifiscm has caused wars and conflict in the past, both on an individual and relationship spectrum. In a relationship between pursuer and distancer (I was the distancer) avoiding conflict created escalations from the pursuer. Taking the bull by the horns can, and does, achieve longterm peace. It is longterm peace I desire, not a faux covering of inaction.
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I am the walrus!.... er, no hang on....
A fair dinkum laughing Hyena!