Ok, that's enough. I'm tired of that. Despite what you might say... or believe... or maybe even want to believe (There's an interesting thought), you're wrong when you say sexuality is defined by action. Does that mean that Roman Catholic priests are asexual? No. They're heterosexual, or maybe sometimes homosexual or bisexual. Are you going to tell me (for, what, the fourth time?) that now I'm limiting people by their sexuality? In case that's what you're thinking, let me state that I'm not. But sexuality is part of being human. Our desires shape who we are, like it or not. If my friend Dave up and got married to a woman and even had sex with her, what, a few times a year, he'd still be gay. Sorry. Homosexuals have heterosexual experiences the same way heterosexuals have homosexual experiences. Or are you still suggesting that everyone who's experimented or had a homosexual experience is homosexual? Well, let the parade begin. Why don't we add fans of Ellen and Margaret Cho into the mix?
And here's how homosexuality is "defined" in a more literal sense. In case you were wondering.
Main Entry: 1ho·mo·sex·u·al
Pronunciation: "hO-m&-'seksh-(&-)w&l, -'sek-sh&l
Function: adjective
1 : of, relating to, or characterized by a tendency to direct sexual desire toward individuals of one's own sex
(Emphasis mine)
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