I don't want this to turn into a Timber v Chewy public discussion about who was right and who was wrong. Both of you have had a chance to have your say. If you want to continue take it to PM, that can actually be healthy if you both respect each other enough to actually listen to each other's point of view in private. Sort the misunderstandings out and all that.
On another note, that was an excellent post, Shamrock. Cheers mate. Sometimes we get so passionate about our opinion that we forget that other people are just as passionate about theirs. The trick is not let that passion overcome you to the point that it blinds your perspective about things - this is a message forum at the end of the day.
If you guys think that what you're going through is hard, have a thought for us - we have to remain impartial in making decisions while beset on all sides by people who passionately believe that they have been wronged and that their point of view is right, and we need to be able to keep our cool in settling some of these disputes, which in some cases (no disrespect intended) border on the childish. If we can do it, why can't you?
Chill, fellas. We're not each other's enemies here.